Chapter 23—Selfishness in the Church and in the Family Dear Brother M,I have been shown in vision that you have defects in your character which must be remedied. You are not right in your views and feelings in regard to your wife. You do not appreciate her. She has not received the words of sympathy and love from you that you should have given her. It would not lessen the dignity of your manhood to praise her for the care she takes and the burdens she bears in the family. {4T 255.1}

(255) Kære bror M: Jeg er blevet vist i et syn at du har mangler i din karakter, der må rådes bod på. Du har ikke ret i dit syn på og følelser for din hustru. Du værdsætter hende ikke. Hun har ikke fået de forstående ord og kærlighed fra dig som du burde give hende. Det gør ikke din mandighed mindre at du roser hende for den omsorg hun giver og de byrder hun bærer i familien.